Ubuntu: Generational Speak

 

I have been quiet for a season and perhaps I need to awaken the spirit. I bring you news from Mombasa on the east coast of Africa. It has been a heart warming visit with greetings from twelve African nations; Benin, Nigeria, Cote d'Ivoire, Senegal, Burkina Faso, Kenya, Malawi, Togo, Mali, Tanzania, Ethiopia and Zambia. A great convocation arranged and brought together by AWARD. Together we revisited the spirit of Ubuntu; an ethos of African identity deeper than the colour of your skin. We could feel as one. "I am because we are". There are many lessons I learned from everyone. And it was great fun, but I want to share with you just one. 

There are five generations in Africa at any one time. As an elder I need to play the part. This does not come automatically with age. I must be deliberate and make a cultivated effort to always be my best. I can give advice to those who will listen, but I must also listen to generational and intergenerational speak in its complexity of cultural boundaries, perspectives and rules of engagement. I must speak with humanity and dignity to open the doors of non-demanding, non-judgemental association and build relationships of trust, goodwill, peace and progress. Nonetheless, this is believed to be impractical in the digital, competitive world we live in today, where success is defined by who is on top. With my peers I joke, they can take it. Other generations might not appreciate it and may assume I am imposing or suggesting something that may not be. Another generation may simply disregard the content of the text. With the passage of time in Africa, as in other parts of the world, everything moves on to the shelves of history and each generation must play its part while on stage in this life and later in the archives. The children need training to survive the day. The rising generation will benefit from learning and mentoring. The generation in power must speak, lead and be strong on behalf of all generations. The generation in authority is experienced and wise. They can give compassionate guidance and counsel freely. But there is also a generation that is revered. They have seen many years; enough to think about life from all its angles, positions and perspectives. They can challenge the bedrock of your understanding and belief system with sage affection. A word from them can change a life. 

The dynamic of the African society embraces all generations and associations tempered with cultural norms. It is a blessing that holds our communities intact and yet establishes the fundamentals of neighbourly togetherness. Remaining cognisant of the generation to which you speak will bridge many boundaries of interaction, open doors to opportunity and peradventure smooth your way to success. Embrace, integrate and appreciate generational speak in all your communications and it will help you touch the heart of Africa and keep the spirit alive.   

Ubuntu